Last time we explored Disillusioned Learners who develop some skills but lose their enthusiasm. Now let's look at the third stage: Capable & Cautious.
These people have strong competence but surprisingly low commitment. They can do the work well but hold back.
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Why might someone with solid skills still hesitate to take initiative?
Capable & Cautious individuals have developed the technical abilities needed for success. They know the processes, make few mistakes, and understand the complexities involved.
But despite their competence, they lack confidence or motivation in certain situations.
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Think of a skill you're good at but rarely volunteer to use—what holds you back?
How does someone become Capable & Cautious? Often they've been burned before - maybe criticized for a mistake, micromanaged, or given unclear expectations.
Sometimes they've simply become comfortable in their current role and feel uncertain about stretching further.
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How might past negative experiences affect someone's willingness to step forward?
Here's what makes this stage tricky to spot: Capable & Cautious people do good work when directed but don't initiate much.
They wait for clear instructions, seek approval more than needed, and often say "just tell me what you want."
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What's one way this behavior differs from someone who truly lacks the skills?
What do Capable & Cautious people typically say? "Are you sure you want me to handle this?" or "I can do it if you think it's best" or "What exactly do you want me to do?"
Notice they're not asking how to do something - they're seeking permission or reassurance.
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How does this sound different from a Disillusioned Learner's frustrated comments?
